Fix otelhttp span names to match the semantic conventions

[dmathieu]

Closes #726

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✅ Project coverage is 83.3%. Comparing base (f259866) to head (86696da).
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[MrAlias]

This is close, but I think the new default formatter still misses a couple of cases needed to actually match the HTTP span-name rules.

The main issue is that it uses r.Pattern verbatim, while the rest of otelhttp already treats that value as needing normalization before it becomes http.route. There is also still a gap for nonstandard methods, where the span name should fall back to HTTP instead of the raw method string.

I’d prefer to fix those in this PR so the new default naming is aligned with the existing route/method normalization logic.

[dmathieu]

I have moved the span name computation into the semconv internal package, so we can reuse the http.route computation.