Improve error logging and handling (#150)

[Rohit (rohits64)]

Cherry-picking remaining 1.11.2 changes.
When looping a cursor fails log the error at an
a error log level.

If errors aren't tolerated then throw an exception instead of continuing to loop.

KAFKA-396
Ref: mongodb@8068a45

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