Add ASAN test run

[legendecas]

Creating this issue to track adding ASAN test build in https://github.com/nodejs/node-addon-api/blob/main/.github/workflows/ci.yml, helping identifying issues like #1602 sooner.

[legendecas]

Node.js macOS on arm is not working properly with ASAN: nodejs/node#55583

[github-actions]

This issue is stale because it has been open many days with no activity. It will be closed soon unless the stale label is removed or a comment is made.